Who do you think you are?
Imposter syndrome doesn’t just whisper lies, it can steal your joy, your confidence, and your momentum. But here’s the truth: you’re not a fraud, You are someone who are continuing to grow and you deserve a seat at the table.
When I feel myself slipping into self-doubt, I turn to small rituals and tools that help me reset my mindset and reconnect with my worth. Below are a few feel-good favorites (many I use myself) that have helped me move through the noise and back into alignment with who I really am. I’d love to share my 6 amazing tools to find self confidence.
1. Best-Self Guided Journal
For: Clarity, Confidence, and Daily Wins
Journaling is something that comes up a lot and I will admit sometimes I even tire of mentioning it, However, it serves as an outlet in moments of stress. I am a big journaler so for those of you who are writers and enjoy it, here is a mindfulness journal I stand behind. This journal helped me unpack the clutter in my mind and focus on what matters most. With prompts for gratitude, goals, and reflection, it’s like a daily dose of grounding.
👉 Check out the mindfulness journal that I recommend to help you stay positive.
2. Centering yourself in stressful moments
For: centering yourself in moments of anxiety
When anxiety creeps in or I start doubting myself, a short breathing session or guided meditation from the Yours app brings me back. Bonus: it’s beautiful and calming to use. Regardless of what tool you use, the important thing is to allow yourself a few minutes to recenter yourself and get back on track. Self-doubt can creep in at any minute. But in that moment, you are in charge and can take charge to refocus. Use the energy to empower yourself instead of doubting yourself.
👉 Try a mindfulness app here. There are several free options.
3. Yogi Stress Relief Tea
For: Finding calm in a cup.
Sipping calm in a cup is a great way to relieve your stress. Reduce your stress and remember who you are and how far you have come.
Some days, comfort is as simple as a warm mug. This herbal blend supports the nervous system with natural ingredients like lavender and chamomile. I recommend this based on feedback. I will be honest and admit I do not drink much tea. I am a coffee girl myself. But I do recommend this tea to those who enjoy it.
👉 Brew a moment of peace to improve your mood and mind.
4. Aromatherapy Candle Set
For: Creating a calming space to reflect and reset
Scent is powerful. Lighting a candle during journaling, prayer, or meditation helps me anchor into stillness. These calming scents are perfect for winding down or setting an intentional tone for your day.
👉 You can place these Aromatherapy Candles anywhre in your home and feel a boost in mood.
5. The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women by Dr. Valerie Young
For: Understanding why you feel like a fraud and how to rise above it
This book changed how I viewed success and perfectionism. It’s a must-read if you struggle with feeling “not enough,” even in your brightest moments. Sometimes I feel empowered by other women who have gone before me. Listening to their stories serves, as motivation because if they did it then so can I.
👉 The Secret Thoughts of Successful Women
6. 366 Mindfulness Self-Care Quotes Calendar
For: Daily encouragement and reflection at your fingertips
This beautifully designed daily calendar offers 366 uplifting quotes to inspire mindfulness, confidence, and balance. It’s a thoughtful addition to any workspace and a perfect tool for grounding yourself when self-doubt starts to creep in. Great as a gift or a daily reminder for you.
👉Daily Affirmation calendar
You don’t have to wait to feel 100% confident to start showing up fully. These small tools have helped me quiet self-doubt, build confidence, and feel more grounded, especially on the tough days.
If any of these feel aligned for you, I hope they bring comfort, clarity, and confidence like they have for me.
Rememebr: You’re not a fraud. You’re just evolving.
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Have a favorite feel-good find of your own? I’d love to hear it—share it in the comments or tag me on Instagram! And if this post helped you, pin it or share it with someone who could use a confidence boost today.
